But you have to improve your marriage behavior if you want success. The first reaction in your mind, when you make such a harsh threatening discovery is going to be self-protective, accompanied by fear; these are primal.
Third, your marriage is not over, unless you choose it to be. You must change your behaviors of thought, feeling, speech, and actions. Reading a book or two, even one of mine, will likely not be enough. When you discover your husband is using online dating sites you will automatically assume the worst, imagining he is following through, and meeting other women. That is probably not happening, but it is not too late for your marriage, even if he is.
Harry Reis, a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester and other psychologists and sociologists have published a sweeping review of scientific studies that have been done over the past decade on online dating.
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EFF exposes dating site privacy and security scares If you're thinking that dating and matchmaking sites might be a truly private way to make the most of Valentine's weekend and beyond, think again.
You are a not a reflection of your husband, you are you.
It is in no way your fault that they chose to misbehave.
Dating sites like Ok Cupid, Match.com, e Harmony and ever-expanding Nerve Dating are certainly popular, and claim to use secret scientific formulas to make matches.
However, a group of psychologists and sociologists are about to go on the record that the sites are not using scientific methods.They are individuals, who you married, for better or worse, who succumbed to rampant temptations (not excusing them).Second, it’s a mistake to take their actions as indictments about yourself.Here is the collected consensus of 11 categories of men you might encounter when dating online: 1.Just Looking He fantasizes about a beautiful love life or sex life but has too much anxiety to actually let any potential connection leave his protective computer screen.Or, at least make an informed decision about which sites you'll trust with your data and security.