Love blinds common sense.” “No Nigerian, Ghanaian or Jamaican man is welcome in my house. Why is it better for me to be with a white man than it is to be with a Nigerian? How many marriages do you know of people from two different African countries that have lasted till old age? I pondered those phrases: “It’s for your own good” and “stick to your own”.
As one uncle put it to me [I’m Congolese], “If you married a Nigerian, how would you cope if he wanted to retire in Nigeria? Could we really say that relationships would be easier if we were with someone of the same origin?
If you’re going to marry a foreigner, marry a white man.” These were the words that fell from my friend’s mother’s mouth when her daughter told her she was dating a Nigerian man because she was tired of Congolese men. ”, said my friend in response, defiantly challenging her mother, to my dismay (anybody knows better than to challenge an African mother! White people “White people don’t have much culture; it’s easy to adapt either way. Was it really for our own good to find our life partners within our own culture?
There’s not really a more jarring travel experience than spending two weeks getting used to being in Japan and then going immediately to Nigeria.
They’re opposite places in almost every way places can be opposite.
Girls in Nigeria want to date and marry a tough man, not some wimp who thinks he could buy women with money. Not really money or material things, the fact that you know what you are doing could give you more girls than splashing money around.
Well, they may help you spend your money and get you ditched. If you really want to date pretty hot girls from Nigeria, you need to take responsibility or what else do you think a man does? There is a kind of attitude that gets you women before you even ask, it's the tough and confidence-filled kind ofattitude when you walk up to a girl in Nigeria and forget what to say; you just killed your manly ego, OK, this happens occasionally but your ability to keep trying to stand up to women and say the right things is what makes you a real man.
Nigerian girls are just like every other girl in the world, with those same yearning and desire to be loved and cared for, they have those same loose grip on situations and everyday happenstance, not being very serious about life and hoping a handsome man would pop out of the sky and swoop them off their feet into insurmountable riches, and with of course the accompanying "lived happily ever after." Here are facts about Nigerian girls, a little tip on what it takes to marry a girl from Nigeria. Dating a Nigerian girl is as simple as dating every other girl in the world, it involves the same approach and meticulous strategies, you need the same confident approach that is necessary to picking girls.
Are you eying that black girl working in the same office with you, are you thinking of dating and even getting married to a pretty Nigerian babe? People in Nigeria believe that the man is the head of the family and we see the woman as a helper to the man, every Nigerian girl is looking for a responsible man, a man that is able to make decisions in dire situations. This is one truth about chasing and winning girls over, no matter how pretty they look, you need to give then the impression that you have something to offer, that you are confident.
Not every Jamaican man is a "hustler" or "rude boy".
Same token, not every Nigerian man is a "guy man" (con man). My dear,it depends on individual but i do know Nigerian men has those qualities u did mentioned,in de aspect of food, they eat eatable things like other Jamaican men,one other thing is dat Nigerian men takes bein ontop in their relationship serious 2 de core,de way God made it 2 be initially.
A man does what is right because the woman will always blame the man when anything goes wrong irrespective of who caused it, the woman hopes you would be there to guide her steps, or what else do you think is taking responsibility. Effective communication is very vital in any relationship and people from Nigeria speaks English so that is the first tip.